Friday, December 11, 2015

Busy little kitten

WOW it's been a while since my last post, but let me assure you I've been busy!

If you thought that getting married to SirW would slow down our participation within our BDSM community, think again...

Here's what We have going on:

MOSH - Once a month, forty or so 'kinksters' get together - there's usually a theme that is educational or a live entertainment segment.

SLOSH(s) -
  • Slosh West (anywhere between five to fifty 'kinsters' show up and have for over 9 years) meets every Wednesday at a local pub.  We attend one per month usually.
  • Slosh East (anywhere between twenty-five to seventy-five 'kinksters') meets at a local pub twice a month.  We attend one per month typically.
  • SirW attends the DSG (Dominant Support Group) once a month.
  • I try to attend the SSG (s-type Support Group) once a month.
  • SirW is one of the Chief DM's and I am a certified/qualified DM within our community.  We offer to support our community via ensuring safety at BDSM events at various clubs around town.  There are numerous clubs hosting these events that We attend and/or DM at sometimes once or twice a month and sometimes not so many (Winter, etc.)
  • House Parties!  Due to our consistent social interaction with so many people, we get invited to a ton of private parties - I enjoy these a ton because you get to know people more than you would at a club scene.
TOY & CLOTHING Sales/Swaps - We have a few friends that make BDSM goods that participate at the annual events such as ML (Mr. Leather) and We support a few local Adult stores that are BDSM/Kink-friendly

Now then, because there are dozens of people we see on a regular basis, there are LOADS of vanilla events We get invited to as well.  Here's where We really get to know our fellow kinksters.  Great conversations and good old fashioned fun and games (Cards Against Humanity sometimes makes its way to the table) with laughter and warm camaraderie.  There could be ten or so parties throughout the year.

PLAY TIME! - SirW and I are pretty focused people when it comes to DMing.  The concentration required to DM usually does not have me wanting to play at that event...there is an occasional time where We will though.  However, We make time to play at home :)

DELIVERIES! - SirW never ceases to surprise me.  I never know when I'm going to get a call from the post man telling me I have a package to sign for.  He is always getting fun BDSM toys and or sexy stockings and other wonderful things for me.  I stopped opening the packages in the elevator to avoid the shock and horror on my neighbor's faces :)

I guess what I am trying to say is that Our life is full, but balanced and happy.

***cheers and happy new years***


Thursday, August 14, 2014

Phase 2!

So, let's recap, shall we?

I met SirW accidentally on line.  We dated over skype and very few visits for 6 months, then He collared me.  One year later, I moved to Canada and we were married.  This year, We celebrated Our 3/2 (3 years collared/2 years marriage) and couldn't be happier!

We based the decision for me to move to Canada on His children not being fully grown and my wanting the opportunity to taste motherhood and the fact that He had a long-time career that He planned to retire from in the not too distant future.

Well, 2 years later, both kids have graduated high school, have jobs and are living successfully outside Our home, so We downsized!  We found the perfect apartment with breathtaking views and all the amenities We wanted.  

His retirement is in a few years, then who knows where life will take Us.  All i know is i am exactly where i want to my dreams.


Tuesday, June 17, 2014

Neurotic kitten?

Perhaps living life to the fullest, making it count as if there was no promise of tomorrow comes as a double-edge sword...

There are moments...not many of them (thankfully), where i...hmmm: i probably need to start further back...hang on...OK, here it is:

Today, for example, i had a pretty awesome day at work, got home with more energy than i expected and sat and enjoyed an afternoon movie - so relaxing!

Then, i get a box taped and start packing (We're moving in 9 days!)...wait...I need to go further back, damn it (Sorry)  OK, here it is:

So my move to Canada was phase 1 of our journey together.  Phase 2 would happen after both kids graduate high school, work and live successfully outside our home.  This has happened (yey!). 

We are now about to downsize (Phase 2) into a gorgeous apartment on the top floor with a river view to die for, sunken living room, underground parking (bye bye shoveling and scraping), indoor and outdoor pools, jacuzzi, a complete gym, sauna - it's a slice of heaven and We will be there in 9 days!  Thus the packing :)

Now then, so i turned the music on and danced and packed and danced and packed. Then i incorporated the making of dinner into the mix - i was feeling fantastic...until...i look at the clock and it's a tad later then usual with no call/text to say He was on His way.

i call and leave a message at work.  i call and leave a message on His cell.  Why am i hyperventilating?

It's that moment i hate...the sick feeling in the pit of my stomach when for a split second, i think something has happened to Him and it begins to pick at me internally.

That's why, each time these feelings creep in, when eventually He walks through the door, i run to Him and hug Him tight, so grateful to have even just one more day with Him.  That's why, when ever We part to go to work, etc., i repeat, "i love You!" (a little too often perhaps).

Anywhooo, He just texted to say He was in a meeting, so i just let out a sigh of relief :)

Just being real with some pretty negative feelings - feels good to get it off my chest!

Wednesday, April 9, 2014

Not Dead!

WOW, it's been a while since my last post...Master thought it a good idea to let You All know that i am very much still alive and well :)  Sorry i have not had any entries for a while!

Everything is going unbelievably well and there are plenty of stories to share, but i need to reflect a bit and get into the mood to write, so hang tight for'em :)

i really just wanted You to know i am not dead *giggles*



Sunday, December 15, 2013

my submissive Registration Certification

It had been on Master's mind for a while, now We have gone and done it :)