Friday, December 11, 2015

Busy little kitten

WOW it's been a while since my last post, but let me assure you I've been busy!

If you thought that getting married to SirW would slow down our participation within our BDSM community, think again...

Here's what We have going on:

MOSH - Once a month, forty or so 'kinksters' get together - there's usually a theme that is educational or a live entertainment segment.

SLOSH(s) -
  • Slosh West (anywhere between five to fifty 'kinsters' show up and have for over 9 years) meets every Wednesday at a local pub.  We attend one per month usually.
  • Slosh East (anywhere between twenty-five to seventy-five 'kinksters') meets at a local pub twice a month.  We attend one per month typically.
DISCUSSION GROUPS -
  • SirW attends the DSG (Dominant Support Group) once a month.
  • I try to attend the SSG (s-type Support Group) once a month.
PLAY PARTIES -
  • SirW is one of the Chief DM's and I am a certified/qualified DM within our community.  We offer to support our community via ensuring safety at BDSM events at various clubs around town.  There are numerous clubs hosting these events that We attend and/or DM at sometimes once or twice a month and sometimes not so many (Winter, etc.)
  • House Parties!  Due to our consistent social interaction with so many people, we get invited to a ton of private parties - I enjoy these a ton because you get to know people more than you would at a club scene.
TOY & CLOTHING Sales/Swaps - We have a few friends that make BDSM goods that participate at the annual events such as ML (Mr. Leather) and We support a few local Adult stores that are BDSM/Kink-friendly

Now then, because there are dozens of people we see on a regular basis, there are LOADS of vanilla events We get invited to as well.  Here's where We really get to know our fellow kinksters.  Great conversations and good old fashioned fun and games (Cards Against Humanity sometimes makes its way to the table) with laughter and warm camaraderie.  There could be ten or so parties throughout the year.

PLAY TIME! - SirW and I are pretty focused people when it comes to DMing.  The concentration required to DM usually does not have me wanting to play at that event...there is an occasional time where We will though.  However, We make time to play at home :)

DELIVERIES! - SirW never ceases to surprise me.  I never know when I'm going to get a call from the post man telling me I have a package to sign for.  He is always getting fun BDSM toys and or sexy stockings and other wonderful things for me.  I stopped opening the packages in the elevator to avoid the shock and horror on my neighbor's faces :)

I guess what I am trying to say is that Our life is full, but balanced and happy.

***cheers and happy new years***

kitten{SirW}

3 comments:

  1. I was just thinking about you! Glad to know all is well!

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  2. I know it's been forever since my last post, but I thought I would let you all know that we have been enjoying the last 10 years together more than I could have ever imagined.



    My dreams pale in comparison to our reality in every way.



    He retired from the military and started working from home and I retired a few years back, so we were pretty much isolation pros when the pandemic hit. We have been people who shop on line for a long time, so that also was not new. Ordering booze and cannabis for delivery - that's new!



    We continue to live with the same respect of Master and submissive and have protocols still in place. Some things have loosened in our old age, but we still play and are so connected in every way that it is nice to be so free to be myself.




    Packages still arrive in the mail all the time. Boxes that contain lacey stackings and fun toys that bring pleasure and pain. I still ask Him if there is anything I can do for Him after asking if I can join Him in bed. I still call Him Master and give Him the utmost respect one can give, which gives me joy.



    Our kids (my step kids) are both in the military now (following in their dads footsteps) and leading productive lives, so we downsized into the cutest apartment overlooking the river on the 9th floor, where the view is gorgeous. Treetop, birds and sky are our ever changing artwork and it is heavenly to be living this life.



    My mom died last year and due to the pandemic, I was unable to be with her for her last days, but her ashes ae with us n Canada now, which was her last wish (I am sure this is not how she thought it would happen though).



    All in all, we could not be happier and hope that you are all fairing well during these uncertain times.

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    1. I'm so glad you updated. I've dropped off in posting the past year or so, but I still wonder about people from time to time. <3

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